How To Have A Nice Day

by | Aug 22, 2021

What is the MidLife Male™?

He’s a guy @35-55 balancing work, life, family, health/fitness, finance/money, some style/fashion - trying to balance it all and live his best life possible without regret.
He’s about having both substance and style. About punching the bully in the mouth. About experiences over things. He’s about quality over quantity. He’s about learning and living. About trying, failing and ultimately succeeding. He’s about questioning things. He’s not trying to fit in or conform. He’s into iconic, classic, timeless style.

He’s about being a great father. About understanding that there are no things more valuable than time, health and family. He’s about knowing when enough is enough. He is about perseverance, discipline and having fun.
I talk to other midlife males on my podcast. I publish a newsletter about fitness, food, fashion, family, finance and fun - not to provide advice or come at this like I'm any kind of expert but rather that we’re all in this together, just trying to do our best, be our best and be happy, secure and comfortable in our own skin - Midlife Male is a lifestyle for "like-minded" guys just trying to figure it all out.
Just hoping to inspire, aspire and perspire together.

We all get busy, have a lot going on and it’s easy to get distracted, consumed, caught up in our day-to-day, and become overwhelmed with all the “things” going on around us.  

We feel the pressure to go faster, do more, hustle, grind, keep up, overtake and focus on the destination and achieving our “goals”, rather than the journey itself.

So much so, that we often forget to just simply have a nice day.

More often than not, that’s enough.  

Enough to change our mood, put things back in perspective, breathe, practice gratitude, and be thankful and appreciative for what we do have in our lives, rather than what we do not.

Here are some very basic things I do to have a nice day:

  • Get a good night’s sleep
  • Wake up without an alarm clock
  • Kiss my wife
  • Have breakfast as a family
  • See the kids off to school
  • Exercise
  • Put in a good day’s work
  • Walk my dogs
  • Take a bath
  • Have a clean, simple dinner
  • Call, text, or write a nice note to a couple of friends
  • Get into bed early with a good book or movie

It doesn’t need to be more complicated than that.

A subtle shift in mindset towards valuing what is present and right in front of you and maximizing the life you’re living, not the one you’re chasing.  

A nice house, cars to drive, great kids, good health, a few bucks in the bank, fun experiences with family and friends, great food on the table.  

Keep it simple.  

Have a nice day!

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