Yeah, But Do You Have A Process?

by | May 23, 2021

What is the MidLife Male™?

He’s a guy @35-55 balancing work, life, family, health/fitness, finance/money, some style/fashion - trying to balance it all and live his best life possible without regret.
He’s about having both substance and style. About punching the bully in the mouth. About experiences over things. He’s about quality over quantity. He’s about learning and living. About trying, failing and ultimately succeeding. He’s about questioning things. He’s not trying to fit in or conform. He’s into iconic, classic, timeless style.

He’s about being a great father. About understanding that there are no things more valuable than time, health and family. He’s about knowing when enough is enough. He is about perseverance, discipline and having fun.
I talk to other midlife males on my podcast. I publish a newsletter about fitness, food, fashion, family, finance and fun - not to provide advice or come at this like I'm any kind of expert but rather that we’re all in this together, just trying to do our best, be our best and be happy, secure and comfortable in our own skin - Midlife Male is a lifestyle for "like-minded" guys just trying to figure it all out.
Just hoping to inspire, aspire and perspire together.

The feedback I’ve received from the “How can I help” email has been tremendous.

Thank you so much for all the great insight, honesty, and availability.

I’m having so much fun developing the midlife male guide to maximizing middle age (working title) that I wanted to share some of the work, perspective, principles, and processes we’re developing. 

It’s nowhere near done but here’s a glean into the type of content, coaching, and conversations we’re getting into. 

This isn’t about having all the answers. It’s more about asking questions, challenging the notion that middle age has to be dull, the beginning of the end or monotonous, and rather forging ahead with a defined purpose, process and payoff to make this next phase our best phase. 

The middle is the sweet spot.  Let’s start behaving as such!

Here’s the part of the process that’s most important for you to grasp.

I don’t know what I’m doing.

None of us truly do and yet I’m constantly amazed by people who seem to get so much done so fluidly while I flounder around like a fish out of water constantly…Hmmm

So if I can put together a course to help men improve and get better then anybody can.

And it’s something that anybody will be able to follow.

Because we’re all just men. Men trying our best.  Doing our best.  

1) You cannot be perfect.  There is no perfect.  Perfect does not exist. Perfect is the enemy of good.

2) The journey is the destination.  A bit cliche for sure, but true. I don’t know how this is all gonna turn out.  I do know that I’m enjoying the ride.   

3) You just have to start.  Then you have to go, keep going and be consistent. There is no “right” time.  

4) And you have to stop. Stop worrying, caring about what anyone else thinks, the result, and being afraid to fail.

That’s it.

What have you been waiting to start or wanting to do that you’ve been putting off?

Hobby, side hustle, reclaim your health, write a book, rebuild a relationship?

Let me know!  And get after it!

Or get after it and then let me know.

Yeah, that sounds better. 

In Health –

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Flip the switch on what it means to be middle-aged

In the No B.S. Guide to Maximizing Midlife And Getting Back What Matters Most, I break down the three Midlife Male principles to maximizing middle age so you can take back some of the shit you’ve given up.